Health: forgive is harmonious doctor-patient lubricant

ZhengShanHai (doctor)

        Is the popular TV series "scheme design", although there are some "idealized" place, but stood in a doctor's viewpoint, still feel this is a reflect the doctor living conditions, the works. The play has such a plot to the author's touches particularly impressive.

        The doctor cheng, a potential risk to the old lady careless, allow the home to see, the son of a man killed the intracerebral hemorrhage. The old man has high social status, if family to this matter to delve into the future of small may cause serious influence. But, in the hospital uneasy, with party had chosen to forgive, I hope the old man unnatural deaths life could become a doctor the cornerstone of growth, for other patients bring happiness. From the old man's family of the young doctor forgive let know the confession, to the old man's tombstone deep bow can't afford it.

        The plot actually explains such a truth, compared with the severe punishment and the terms of the cold, tolerance and forgive, sometimes more touches one's soul, let people know introspection, and will yourself for tolerance, and turned into a kind of spirit, transfer to the group of people around.

        Nearly 200 years, western society claims fraternity spirit, in fact it is because of the development of the society has been proved that an only know cause the social cause are reported, and the change of may is deeper hatred, instead, tolerance and forgiveness, but often easier to bring communication between human beings, leading people to pursue and progressive spirit.

        So, the French the great writer Hugo in his work "the pathetic world", even in a plot: always stealing Ran · from prison in o let it out, stealing his father took the house of items, but when the police will Ran · RenZangJuHuo zone to father o let front, father of choice is to forgive. He say to the police, and these things would have is he gave Ran · o let. The tolerance, dissolved the Ran · let the rock of heart, o, the prison's whip not change him, but in love before the priest, he knows the reflection, and later in life, in love and tolerance saved more people.

        The author in many years ago in the newspaper to see such an article, the writer is a nurse, she remember clearly, he just work, one day give patients infusion needle pierced, connecting failed several times, when she was frightened, fear reprimand angrily to her patients, but patients has been to encourage her own house/apartment, patients smile become her later hard work of a very important motive force of, also prompted her to let oneself use smile to patients. As you can imagine, if the nurse in on jobs soon, because a small mistake reprimand angrily to suffer, then the most likely outcome is that nurses in patients with fear, fear accumulated for a long time, it will be resentment, which she might disdain smiled to treat their work.

        Now, the doctor-patient relationship between tension, some places even appeared the rivalry, it should be said, this and now between the patient, lack of some basic forgive the spirit. Patients believe this is a medical fine work, therefore, often for health mistakes bricks, thought this could maximize its interests, the fact on the contrary, the cause is more health care to patients attitude cold, not willing to treat patients with the real feeling.

        Required in this way, for patients in some stage of the mood changes, also lack of necessary tolerance, because there are medical make existence, often put patients "temper" as "thing is much" and even "disturbances", and with it the more you're welcome to patients attitude, with the lack of medical professional feelings to warm the patience of the patients. Now, why there are few patients can feel the hospital "love", because health care for patients with a don't understand not to forgive attitude, and often is "to" emotions.

        Of course, forgive is a is easier said than done, difficult things, but hope that each one of us, can gradually set up a forgive consciousness, with their own tolerance and love, to gradually change the situation we are in, from yourself, perhaps, you are breaking the doctor-patient opposite to the first piece of dominoes.