Missed the best reproductive age, but also not to have two children?

November 11, 2015 10:54:42

Source: today's morning post

Missed the best reproductive age, but also not to have two children?

Look at the visit record of the attending doctor of department of gynaecology --

Deliberately chase at the cost of their health "Eva", "chasing" to may be a beautiful bubble

- the correspondent Sun Meiyan Our reporter Huang Miao jun

At a regular press conference yesterday, the national health and family planning commission, the common concern when be born two child policy, give you a definite reply: "next year". It is understood that in prophase survey found that most people want to be able to have two children, 20 to 44, married people ideal number of children is 1.93 on average, the countryside is around 2.1, town is about 1.8; And 80% of people want to have a female.

Such a response and survey data released, someone glad someone sorrow. People born in the 1970 s, in particular, into a "don't I stay" anxiety.

Obstetrics and gynecology hospital affiliated to zhejiang university school of medicine of doctor of vice director of outpatient service of department of gynaecology RuanHengChao after the national news, last week to sit for three consecutive outpatient service, consulting with her to see a doctor about ten percent of the patients to have two children, mostly older women. Combined with the conditions of outpatient service in WeChat friends post remind: missed the best reproductive age really not reluctantly, have only one child is also very beautiful. Let's take a look at her three times to visit's note, for some older women want to have two children, be a kind of "chicken soup".

Clinic in the morning, to an old sick, 44, a 37-year-old good sisters together with her, to see outpatient service purpose is to want to have two children. Found after the test results come out, such as mycoplasma infection, I suggested that she want to eat in the past three months tetracycline class of medication to control infection, this kind of medicine has effect on the fetus, Suggestions such as drug withdrawal consider pregnant again.

Didn't expect this doctor's advice, she jumped with urgent.

"Ruan, the doctor can't afford to wait, wait I am older. I already gave birth to a boy, last year already in residence, there's nothing to do every day to go home, see you this time outpatient service, is to want to discuss with you whether can don't use this medicine." She said she had asked the local doctor, says that without this medicine is not can't of, if want to be pregnant, be sure to withdrawal.

With her little sister, 37, also for to have two children, two life one-child, happened to be born at the same time, the two good sisters to consult together, also want to best can have two children together.

With such a strong desire to have two children, I can understand. After 35 years of age, it is women, time is one day less than a day, but if not good infection control, not only pregnant not easily, and even if pregnant with, also easy to abortion.

I just want to advise those who haven't control good gynecological diseases of women, cutting wood and knife work, though time is precious, don't hot-headed.

To see so many patients, RuanHengChao also want to combine their own experience, in the circle of friends remind you.

Nguyen doctor himself was born in 1979, was an only child, love is not an only child, so after gave birth to a baby, would never want to have two children. Alone until early last year, our province "two children" policy after landing, they didn't have the chance to have two children. But soon in the past two years, nguyen doctor husband and wife both have no plan to have two children. If you want to have two children, nguyen will also join women doctor.

"Our generation, itself is an only son, for the brothers and sisters in the concept of no one in the early 1970 s. Now in my early 40 s and 50 s, when I was young is have brothers and sisters, coupled with their first child, almost all the resident reading age, so after two child policy open, their desire to have two children than those of us who are strongly after at the end of 70 and 80." Nguyen said the doctor, for the child they do not contradict, but not intentionally, because a child's life is also very beautiful. Don't cry because it is to have two children, and families to bring more health problems.

For the elderly and fertility desire strong women, nguyen doctors want to borrow in the circle of friends, and these women ':

"Whoever reform, total want to leather of the interests of the people, not perfection. The progress of the society, is to follow the truth. And we are part of the leather out, had been leather off brothers and sisters, and leather out early to do two children mother. But I feel very honored to, at least the progress of the society have the contribution of our generation is so special.

I want to advise those old also want to birth the great mother, missed is missed, sometimes not YuanTian not especially people, cherish the present, the scenery is still beautiful. Two baby is very beautiful, but if the sacrifice my health for painstakingly, end may be just a beautiful soap bubbles. Age, natural birth difficulties, risk of older pregnancy increase, high-risk infants born probability is bigger!

Sometimes, regret is also a kind of beauty! Let us in regret and line and treasure! "

Outpatient service over the weekend, people much more special, looked at more than 70 people a day. The deepest impression is a 53-year-old elder sister, and I said I want to have two children, panic rising, 1 vigorously ask me: can you? What to do to prepare? What are the risks if pregnant?

I listened to very helpless, the elder sister also doing HRT treatment (hormone replacement therapy, namely through external supplement estrogen, to relieve various symptoms of menopause), has been more than two years. Because of hormone therapy, she also could come to menstruation, once stop treatment, her period will be no. The reason for such treatment, it is because of her ovarian function decline. Hormone therapy was the one that brought her period such illusion, let her think oneself also gave birth to her hope.

Although little hope of pregnant again, but I cannot bear to hit in anticipation of the mother, only tactfully tell her: "you such a situation, to bear children, is almost a mission impossible, I suggest you to consult our assisted reproduction center, to make decisions."

This age, also hope to pregnant with two children, I really don't know how to reassure her obsession.